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A few months agoI read an interview by Jill Scott who was interviewed by Jamie Foster Brown in S2S magazine and she spoke about being "dickmatized", which is The act of getting good sex.
So what is being "DICKmatized"? According to Jill it is : “Where you get caught up in the whole sexuality of your relationship but it’s not going anywhere… Just somebody giving you the goods but not necessarily giving you the rest—or not expecting the rest from them. (Read more: Jill Scott Talks Celibacy & Being Dickmatized | Necole Bitchie.com )
Now when I read that I was like, "Jill Scott...really?? WTW?" Because you know we think we have people all figured out and then don't know a thing about them... But then I was like, hell I am a woman... and sometimes have found myself in the same DICKmatized state of mind. I mean SEX so good, you cancel all plans just to get back to it.... Make you leave home at whatever HOUR just to get it...and guess what? It is all perfectly normal, if you can HANDLE IT... but let's KEEP IT REAL... EVERYBODY can't keep them emotions down. And that is when being DICKmatized get the best of you. The only thing that can help you then is referring to my article below, "Know your Worth, Increase your Value."
Nothing is wrong with having fun (as adults and within reason). Now, I am not talking about being a whore and sleeping around. DICKmatized isn't about that--DON'T RUNTELL THE WRONG ISH!!! Just know that sometimes the Sex has a way of overpowering the emotions and if you aren't aware of the other's feelings, then you are consumed with the physical. Know what you're getting into...
Sex is never OVERRATED if you ask me.... But know that being DICKmatized is REAL... Get an understanding of what you're doing and where you're going with it. Life is GOOD, but even BETTER when we are all on the same page.
So what is being "DICKmatized"? According to Jill it is : “Where you get caught up in the whole sexuality of your relationship but it’s not going anywhere… Just somebody giving you the goods but not necessarily giving you the rest—or not expecting the rest from them. (Read more: Jill Scott Talks Celibacy & Being Dickmatized | Necole Bitchie.com )
Now when I read that I was like, "Jill Scott...really?? WTW?" Because you know we think we have people all figured out and then don't know a thing about them... But then I was like, hell I am a woman... and sometimes have found myself in the same DICKmatized state of mind. I mean SEX so good, you cancel all plans just to get back to it.... Make you leave home at whatever HOUR just to get it...and guess what? It is all perfectly normal, if you can HANDLE IT... but let's KEEP IT REAL... EVERYBODY can't keep them emotions down. And that is when being DICKmatized get the best of you. The only thing that can help you then is referring to my article below, "Know your Worth, Increase your Value."
Nothing is wrong with having fun (as adults and within reason). Now, I am not talking about being a whore and sleeping around. DICKmatized isn't about that--DON'T RUNTELL THE WRONG ISH!!! Just know that sometimes the Sex has a way of overpowering the emotions and if you aren't aware of the other's feelings, then you are consumed with the physical. Know what you're getting into...
Sex is never OVERRATED if you ask me.... But know that being DICKmatized is REAL... Get an understanding of what you're doing and where you're going with it. Life is GOOD, but even BETTER when we are all on the same page.
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