Breaking up

Breaking up is hard. Plain and simple; it doesn't matter how long or what, if your heart was there--it hurts! Once you have admitted it to yourself you need to take the time to clear & heal your heart! Some say the best way to get over a lover is to get under another. For me, and probably you, that won't work. You need to gather all those feelings for your ex- and place them away. It's not easy, but it will eventually come to pass! Once that is done, then proceed to think of you! Look at what went wrong on your behalf, the ex-- behalf, and what you don't want in the next relationship. No one wants extra baggage! You need to do that before you can even think of being with the new guy! You don't want a rebound and you don't want unneeded drama in your life!

Now you can't say you are broken up and still "kickin' it" with the ex--that's not going to work! You can't be in communication with the ex-- and saying you are broken up and leading the next guy on! That is not safe, hearts are involved and things could evolve!! So when you break up! Do just that-- break--up!!!